Strip for me, I’ll strip for you

Thank you to Andee for submitting this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.

1. Have you ever danced naked in front of anyone? What prompted the experience?
Hahaha yes. I love to dance and easily lose myself in the music. When Bis and I were together, we had an open door policy on the house we lived in, which was the site of many a great party ‘in the day,’ and it was not uncommon for friends to just drop in. On a couple of occasions I was “caught out” when I thought I was alone and rocking to an album after my shower

2. Have you been to a strip club? Was it what you expected?
Yes, I was part of a bachelorette party that attended a male stripper club as part of the evening. It was pretty much what I expected and really not my kind of thing, but it was fun to people watch. And the dancers were cute

3. Have you ever been to an “amateur night” at a strip club?
No.

4. Do you think strip clubs are exploitative or are they misunderstood as simple adult entertainment venues?
I think they exploit the dancers, particularly the young girls who may be strapped for cash and see this as their only option. I would never let my daughters do it. This sort of thing can set up false expectations and to me it is simply asking for trouble. For awhile there was some hot debate in allowing one to come to our town; I’m glad that initiative was finally killed.

5. Would you ever consider stripping to pay for college or other expenses?
When I first came out to the Boston area to go to school and was looking for a job to supplement my work-study stipend, I was quite attracted to the ads in the paper for “go-go” girls. It would have been a nice chunk of change! But I was talked out of the idea and that’s just as well as I was still incredibly naïve at the time.

6. Have you ever given your partner a private dance?
Partial ones only… I don’t have the finesse to take one from start to finish but I can certainly tease while humming the theme from “The Stripper” which was a band favourite from high school

7. Would you ever perform a lap dance for a complete stranger?
It’s considered performance art, yes? So I might under certain conditions, to promote a character or as part of a show. I apparently know no shame after having chased a man from one side of the audience to the other with romantic intentions in my last show

8. Showgirls, Strip Tease, Magic Mike … What is the sexiest Hollywood stripper scene you have ever YouTubed?
Uhhhh… none of the above? When I You-Tube sexy stuff, it goes more along this theme…

Bonus: Do you have a stripper fantasy, that given the chance of not being found out, you would turn into a reality?
What, besides the Scavenger Hunt pics I do? LOL
Well, I’ve always had this fantasy of running naked across a sports field…

Going for a home run here!

Where did that field of daisies go?!?!

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Cum, are you a fan?

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions come from the wacky, inventive, and sexually creative mind of blogging fiend the late phoenix.

In true Late Phoenix style, I must first give off a stream of relevant pictures

1. We are all incurable sex addicts, but name one thing—a job, a passion, a creative outlet, a collection—of yours you use as a replacement, a distraction from constantly thinking about sex 24/7.
One thing, eh? Those who follow me know that I am a woman of many passions, but the thing I use to directly channel my energies would be the performance arts… singing, dancing, acting, playing musical instruments. Of course, that can be a double-edged sword; I am perhaps at my kinky best during Hell Week (the affectionate term we use for the technical rehearsal week before performances, where everything comes together… sound, lights, action!).

2. Have you ever loved somebody so much you thought having sex with them would actually sully the pristine purity of that love?
Yes. That would be the absolute best friend I ever had in this world, may he know happiness in whatever lies beyond us. Kev was my friend, my brother, my soulmate; we were the ultimate example of what a platonic relationship could be. Unfortunately, he died far too young of congenital heart disease.

3. If you could make love to yourself, would you? Describe this experience in full detail.
Baby, it’s what I do… those who follow my blog are quite familiar with my solo sessions of sensation play. Really, there are too many examples to point to. It is both a blessing and a curse: alone, I can explore what feels good in a pace that suits me, but I am hampered by the limitation of not having ready access to that which can deliver sensation I cannot give myself. That said, I am blessed that Sir is willing to give me those experiences when we get the opportunity. And I am indebted to Rider for frequent online inspiration

4. Cum, are you a fan? Explain and expound.
fanatic [fəˈnætɪk]
n
1. a person whose enthusiasm or zeal for something is extreme or beyond normal limits
2. Informal a person devoted to a particular hobby or pastime; fan a jazz fanatic
adj
a variant of fanatical
[from Latin fānāticus belonging to a temple, hence, inspired by a god, frenzied, from fānum temple]
Collins English Dictionary – Complete and Unabridged © HarperCollins Publishers 1991, 1994, 1998, 2000, 2003

Yep, I think that fits well. After being deprived of the fun for many years, I am discovering the delights of watching, swallowing, experiencing…

5. Does it creep you out to know that God is watching you as you’re fucking?
Hahaha… as a young girl, I used to get freaked out by the thought of relatives who’d passed on being privy to my sexual explorations. It didn’t help to have an Irish Catholic grandmother living under our roof offering her opinion at every turn! No wonder I was oppressed as a young ‘un!!
These days, I harbour little guilt… it is a basic human drive for a reason, and it is much healthier to be acknowledged than denied. I have found that if I do not satisfy the itch, it will come out in undesirable ways. Therefore the exploration…

Bonus: Tell us something sexy that happened to you this week.
It’s still very early in the week, but if you include most of last week, I was reading a story that turned me on immensely. Repeatedly. And then of course there is the session I wrote about yesterday.

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